they vs day: hear and say the difference
they and day are identical except for one sound: they has the voiced th, /ð/, and day has the d sound, /d/. D taps the ridge and blocks the air for a moment; voiced TH puts the tongue on the teeth and keeps a soft buzz running without ever closing.
The two words
The difference
What actually changes
D taps the ridge and blocks the air for a moment; voiced TH puts the tongue on the teeth and keeps a soft buzz running without ever closing.they — /ð/
- Lips
- Relaxed, slightly apart.
- Tongue
- Tip touching the back or edge of the top front teeth.
- Jaw
- Slightly open.
day — /d/
- Lips
- Neutral, slightly apart.
- Tongue
- Tip on the ridge behind the top teeth, sides sealed.
- Jaw
- Slightly open.
Each word in a sentence
they
They arrived before us.
day
What a beautiful day.
Why this pair is hard
Hindi, Urdu, Bengali, Gujarati, Cantonese, Korean, Thai and Vietnamese substitute d, which turns 'they' into 'day'. Spanish already makes this exact sound between vowels in 'nada', so those speakers have it — they just have to use it at the start of a word.
Straight answers
What is the difference between "they" and "day"?
One sound. they is /ðeɪ/ and day is /deɪ/ — everything else in the two words is identical, so that single contrast carries the whole meaning. D taps the ridge and blocks the air for a moment; voiced TH puts the tongue on the teeth and keeps a soft buzz running without ever closing.
Why do I say "they" and "day" the same way?
Hindi, Urdu, Bengali, Gujarati, Cantonese, Korean, Thai and Vietnamese substitute d, which turns 'they' into 'day'. Spanish already makes this exact sound between vowels in 'nada', so those speakers have it — they just have to use it at the start of a word.
Should I train my ear or my mouth first?
Your ear. If you cannot reliably hear which word was said, your mouth has no target to aim at, and drilling produces a sound you cannot check. Run the listening test on this page until you are scoring four or five out of five, then record the pair.
Say "they" and "day" and see which one you said
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