IELTS Speaking Part 3 · celebrations

Is it better to celebrate with family or with friends?

A strong Part 3 answer takes a position in the first clause, supports it with one reason and one concrete case, and then names where it stops being true. Around a minute.

The question, as the examiner gives it

IELTS Speaking Part 3

Is it better to celebrate with family or with friends?

no preparation, about 1 minute to speak

A band 7 to 8 answer

About 118 words at a natural pace — roughly what 60 seconds holds.

Answer it yourself first

Record your own answer first. A model you have read three times comes out with a flattened rhythm, and examiners are trained to hear exactly that. Read it afterwards for the vocabulary and the shape, not to memorise the sentences.
A band 7 to 8 answer

They do different jobs, and I would not want to choose permanently. Family celebrations carry continuity. The same people, largely the same arguments, and a sense that the occasion connects to previous versions of itself, which is comforting even when the evening is not especially enjoyable. Friends are chosen, so the pleasure is more reliable, and there is no obligation underneath it. What I have noticed is that the balance shifts with age. In your twenties friends are effectively family and the actual family is something you escape. By the mid thirties, for most people I know, that reverses, partly because friends acquire children and become unavailable, and partly because you stop finding your relatives quite so unbearable.

The words that earn marks

Each one links to how it is pronounced.

  • permanently

    four syllables with the stress on the first

  • continuity

    five syllables with the stress on the third

  • comforting

    three syllables with a clean ng ending

  • obligation

    four syllables with the stress on the third

  • reverses

    the precise verb for a pattern turning round

  • unavailable

    five syllables with the stress on the third

  • unbearable

    four syllables with the stress on the second

How a strong answer is built

  1. 1Refuse the choice and say what each provides.
  2. 2Describe family celebrations honestly.
  3. 3Describe friends, with the trade-off.
  4. 4Add how the balance changes over a life.

Sounds to watch

The ones this answer leans on most.

Straight answers

How long should my answer to “Is it better to celebrate with family or with friends?” be?

About 60 seconds. Long enough for the answer plus a reason or an example, short enough that the examiner can get through the rest of the set.

Should I memorise the model answer?

No. Record your own version first, then read the model for the shape and the vocabulary. A memorised answer changes rhythm and pace noticeably, and examiners are trained to hear it — it usually costs more than the better wording gains.

Does sayit score this answer?

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